Aug 26, 2008

The Species from Mars.. called man!

Disclaimer: This post is about what I feel about the species from mars and any relevance to people alive or dead is purely intended and not coincidental. Feel free to challenge me, disagree with me, or tell me I’m completely nuts in the comments section, but I reserve the right to delete any comment for any reason whatsoever(abusive, profane, rude, or anonymous comments) - so better keep it polite.

Disclaimer 2: This post is only about the men who are senseless, abusive, rude, mean and really bad towards women and the 'Gentlemen' visiting this blog need not get provoked.. this has got nothing to do with you!


# Guys love guys! Yeah.. its true. They would do anything to keep the other men happy. In any relationship between a male and a female, men don't much care for women. But when a man is depressed he seeks comfort only from the women he knows(he dare not tell about his problems to the other men.. they would just mock at him and have a good time teasing..)

# Your awfully dreadful sense of humor! Some lame slapstick jokes, often aimed at wounding someone and deriving pleasure out of it. No one would call you 'humorous' for this, you are a 'sadist'... go and consult a psychiatrist.

# Men stick on to this crap always.. 'Man has built Taj Mahal for his woman. But women do nothing for men.' Stop taking credit for others work(as you always do in schools, colleges and work) Would you dare take a bad example and generalise all men to it?

# Men use all kinds of abusive words to describe women but I wonder how their mother alone(who is obviously a woman!) is the goddess of affection, love, care and warmth!

# Men are dominating. They always want women to be working under their orders, should not have opinions of their own, just say 'Yes Sir!' and do whatever they are ordered to do. Just because you are a guy/man doesn't mean that you have every right to order us. I have a doubt.. are you men born with horns or what? If yes, then you belong to the demon's world.. so get out of our place. If no, then you are in no way superior.. so stop telling us what to do. If you don't want women to have individual opinion then please don't marry a woman.. go get a 'thanjavur thalayaati bhommai'

# When a gal doesn't like a guy, she shows it on face.. just avoids him. But guyzzzz! They would casually talk with the gal as though nothing is wrong at all. Later, in her absence, would pass obscene comments and abuse her.

# Dowry - The most stupid practice ever! Though some men would say, 'I don't like demanding dowry.. but still for my parent's sake.. they are with that kind of mindset...blah blah..' Today you would demand dowry from the gal.. just because your parents insist(as you put it!) Later you would throw your parents out of the house.. just because your wife insists(again.. as you put it!) Got doubts.. are you brainless? Or you've decided to use it only to annoy gals? Can't you stand up for your opinion? Or are you so sure of your incapability towards earning wealth on your own?

# Why do you guys fuss so much about how the gals dress? If you can't keep your senses under control thats your problem. As though you won't get distracted by gals in chudi... guys get distracted by the very presence of gals.. their glamourous dressing just adds up to it.

# Again, why do you guys fuss so much about the make-up that gals wear? And whats your botheration if we are worried about suntan? Oh yeah! Guys play cricket(may be they know nothing else) all day long, in the scorching sun. Even buffaloes stand in the scorching sun for hours.. does this in any way mean that guys have buffalo skin? And after all this.. the way they come complaining(to women ofcourse) about their complexion..OMG!! Good for them that some fairness creams for men are in the market. Otherwise they would have to stealthily buy 'fair n lovely'(as they'd been doing till recent times..) There are even guys who try the besan(kadala maavu) facepack!

# 'Love' - All that most guys want is a pretty doll to flirt with, just to show off to their other male friends.
'His love is till She says "I love you"'
'Her love starts after She says "I love you"'
And the 'marriage material gal' is someone who looks beautiful, always smiling, talking in a polite way.. blah blah.. blahh.. hey WAIT! I've seen the same criteria somewhere else.. yeah receptionist! even air hostess...

# Forgetting important occassions(read as her b'day, wedding day, et al) No guy would ever dare to forget the birthday of the gal whom he wants to flirt with. But when it comes to the 'other' women(read as mom, sis, friends, wife or gal friend for 5yrs or more..) how well they remember to forget! Don't blame your 'poor memory' for it.. coz we very well know that you still remember what dress(or the absence of it!) was shreya wearing in 'vaji vaji' song.. or how India won(or lost) the match(cricket ofcourse) in the 1997 match against the Aussies. Its just that you choose to have 'selective amnesia'

# Most of you men complain that its always you paying bills for any outing with women. Hello.. this applies only when its an outing(read as dating) with your gal friend... but when its an outing with your female friends its mostly us who pay. Even your gal friends won't mind paying the bills but after seeing you doing all the gymnastics to get the bill from across the table, its just that she gives up. What do you want us to do.. give a hard punch on your stomach and get the bill from you?


P.S. for gals: I know you are quite happy with this post! But just that one point you wish I could have added.. no problem! Add it yourself in the comment box..

P.S. for guys: Close your eyes.. take a deep breath.. have a glass of water(BP tab if needed).. RELAX! Now scroll up and read DISCLAIMER 2... okay? 'But still.. This whole thing is a crap', you are thinking and yeah you have every right to defend your species. So go ahead.. talk me in the comment box(scroll up n go through DISCLAIMER)..
You are most welcomed!

P.S. for all: Though we may not like each other for various reasons, we gotta get along with each other in every day life. So, just consider this as a place to speak out the differences and get to understand each other better. This post may lead to fights and arguments but we'll call it a 'discussion'.. I've poured out my 'opinion'.. its your turn now.. go on..

Happy abusing..






NOTE : One of the 'gentlemen' I know wished that I could have added some good stuff about men also.. so just to make the gentlemen around feel comfortable, I've added this piece to the post. But this in no way means that I'm giving in .. I STILL STRONGLY STAND FOR WHAT I HAVE SAID!

# Men are quite possesive about their women. Thats good actually.. makes his woman feel 'special'
# They are very much protective towards the gals/women around them.
# Taking things easily.. here the stuffs like failing in exams, getting scoldings from dad et al counts (stuffs related to gals n love are exceptions)
# Guys needs are very few.. atleast I feel so.
# Mischievous. Even some gals are so.. but the number is a bit low.
# Though they may tease others so much(even in a hurting way), when the other person has some serious problem.. they stand up for them(some exceptions..)

29 comments:

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AnandaRani said...

hey bargs, the only useful post in the entire blog is this......hats off keep going:-)

Tara said...

Excellent work! i would say.

Definitely most of them are dominating and thoroughly biased.

I know its their nature to be that way.Still change is always a welcome.

@ barbie
One thing i dont accept wit u is - u ve told they ve dreadful sense of humor.

No child!I dont think they ve intentions to hurt anyone.

And for the wonderful way of handling the "most tough topic". hats off! one cornetto for u:)

But my serious belief is gentlemen exit.. I do know some.

Bhargavi said...

@ tra
thanks tra.. :) looking forward to meet cornetto :D
most men do make fun of others and find it funny also..
yeah i know(wish) that gentlemen exist.. but just tat most of them are hard to find.. :(
u know some.. wow! we can hang out together more... ;)

Tara said...

Yes dear.. I've told about them to u too. I think u forgot??;)

Bhargavi said...

@ tra
oh them.. they have gal frens rite?
thats the thing..
'Behind every successful man, there is a woman'
Woman can mould any clay head into a respectable abled man!
:P
But yeah.. there are gentlemen.. REALLY HARD TO FIND!

Aslam said...

Good thing u put up the disclaimer...!!! OR else u wud have been in trouble. Someone could have sued you.. did u consult any lawyer before posting..?? :P

You do have a lot of..ummm...knowledge abt guys..! That just goes to show how easy it is to understand them.. unlike girls who tend to be so complex ( conditions apply )..

Ok here is what i have to say...

*Guys make jokes... some maybe harsh... but it takes just 2 mins and 35 seconds for the receiving guy to forget about it... Unlike girls who keep thinking about it.. and hate the person for the rest of eternity..! ( sheesh.. get over it..)

*Guys worry about tanning in the sun..???? huh... sorry don't know anyone who does so... Fairness creams..phew?? If i knew anyone i would have a good time mocking them...HAHAHA :P ( thus proving one of ur points ). Why does anyone need make up anyway.. both Guys and girls..?? ( do u know they use small animals to test the cosmetic products.. )
Anyway Guys, go play hard in the sun...!! GO GO GO..!!

*And even girls pass comments... At least guys do so loudly enough... unlike girls who do so discreetly in one corner and the only thing audible is a lot of giggles..!

*Guys take a lot of happiness from small achievements... like scoring 5 runs in a game where the team score is 16 and then winning the match by 5 runs.. or finishing "Half Life 2" in 2 weeks 3 days..!!! Yaaaay...!!

Hmm.. well.. i can go on like this... anyway.. Neither species is without its own share of problems... I guess thats how it is meant to be... its the balance of nature... Plus and minus... yin and Yang...! So cheers...nd dont think too much abt it..!! :D

Raja Mohammed R M said...

Well, everybody got their own rights to express their view. Its your view, n there's nothing wrong!!!

Bhargavi said...

@ aslam
1) guys forget the comment soon? :o it only applies to the comments passed by the other guys.. as i said b4 'guys love guys' and thats why thy are forgiven n forgotten so easily..

2)guys do worry abt suntan.. may be u don't know such ppl..

3) yeah we do pass comments.. but as long as the person doesnt get to know tat the giggles is abt him/her, no one really cares..

4)yeah.. guys really take a lot of happiness for small achievements.. thy wud be happier winning a cricket match than clearing the sem exams.. AGREED!




@ srijesh
this is not a reply to the community fight! you very well know that i wrote about guys before even the community fight started.. i told you before. just because u wanna pull my legs here, dont type all crap!


@raja
:) thats what i've been saying.. its just my view.. anyways ur name is already in the 'list of gentlemen' i know...
so never mind!

@ someone
come on... get a life! just because u had a love failure doesnt mean that u have every right to abuse gals..
if u really believe that what u feel is right, then discuss about it in public.. don't catch hold of me in ym and fight! silly fellow..

Aslam said...

@B

I do hope that by all this u are NOT trying to imply that girls are the perfect embodiment of noble virtues...!

Girls when give the right opportunity can be equally rude, impolite and insensitive...! Dont tell me that they are not capable of doing so... after all it has often been claimed that "If a guy can do it, a girl can do it too...". Right...???? ;)

Bhargavi said...

@aslam
I'm NOT trying to imply that gals are perfect.. fine?
i know there are gals who are impolite and rude, but that number is very low compared to the no of rude men.. thats what i'm trying to say..

@ srijz
i know u will never agree.. who wants u to? u get lost..
gentleman books? there are only a few.. so don't need a book.. its 'gentlemen list'.. n u r nowhere near it! got lost.. already :P

Bhargavi said...

@aslam
I'm NOT trying to imply that gals are perfect.. fine?
i know there are gals who are impolite and rude, but that number is very low compared to the no of rude men.. thats what i'm trying to say..

@ srijz
i know u will never agree.. who wants u to? u get lost..
gentleman books? there are only a few.. so don't need a book.. its 'gentlemen list'.. n u r nowhere near it! got lost.. already :P

Bhargavi said...

u dont... thats the problem lah.. :(

Bhargavi said...

oh doesnt feel like u r far away.. u put attendance in time..!
thanks to ur (dabba) lappy.. :P

Visu said...

Ahem, Wouldn't we call this an e-g-o?

"Never was it given to mortal man - To lie so boldly as women can." :)
--- Alexander Pope


# "(he dare not tell about his problems to the other men.. they would just mock at him and have a good time teasing..)"

I don't quite agree. Well, atleast they don't talk at the back or publicize it like women. ;)

#"Your awfully dreadful sense of humor! ... "

If a girl does, she is kidding and any human must take it sportive, but if a guy does he is a sadist? Duh. Its basically because gals don't get the sarcasm and their thoughts are narrow thus they always misinterpret. If suppose by any miracle, they get the sarcasm, it must have taken more time than a first gen computer took to calculate 2*3 ,.. :)

#"Would you dare take a bad example and generalize?"

Ditto. Contemplate.

#"Men use all kinds of abusive words to describe women".

Not all women, Not all men and not all time.

#"They always want women to be working under their orders, should not have opinions of their own"

Coz, their opinions are almost biased and crap most of time. (Ah yes, most of you by now have realized that).

#"When a gal doesn't like a guy, she shows it on face.. just avoids him. But guyzzzz!"

Girls are bestowed with the power of Tears. And they would easily use it to attract/baffle crowd and What happens next is history. (Ah, now i wonder how we lost freedom of speech?)

#"Dowry - The most stupid practice ever! Though some men would say, 'I don't like demanding dowry.. but still for my parent's sake.."

Yes, I'd totally agree. But wait, one among the parent is a female.
(Yes, Hypocrisy, you see).

#"Why do you guys fuss so much about how the gals dress?"

Etiquette, my dear friend. :P
And the very point of dressing 'Presentable' is to attract men. So be it.

# "why do you guys fuss so much about the make-up that gals wear? And whats your botheration if we are worried about suntan?"

Suntan? ROFL. Well, I wonder how those cosmetics like lipstick et al avoids suntan? Whatever. And by the way, guys going for makeup is as small as an Iota. Refer your #3.

#"'Love' - All that most guys want is a pretty doll to flirt with, just to show off to their other male friends. "

*yawn*.. Typical hypocrite/feminist quote. Ponder over.

#"Forgetting important occassions(read as her b'day, wedding day, et al) No guy would ever dare to forget the birthday of the gal whom he wants to flirt with."

I agree, but not the part following it. And FYI, its applicable to girls too(Of course man, everything is.)except that they feign they just don't remember and expect the guy to ask her( Bloody EGO).

#"after seeing you doing all the gymnastics to get the bill from across the table, its just that she gives up. What do you want us to do.. give a hard punch on your stomach and get the bill from you?"

Brilliant! If you can hit him and grab a snack, why not the bill. Okay, why don't you ask atleast for a formality, why do you just grin and walk away.

"P.S. for gals: I know you are quite happy with this post! But just that one point you wish I could have added.. no problem! Add it yourself in the comment box.."

Yep, All the vomiting can be done here. :P

"Close your eyes.. take a deep breath.. have a glass of water(BP tab if needed).. RELAX! Now scroll up and read DISCLAIMER 2... okay? 'But still.. .. talk me in the comment box(scroll up n go through DISCLAIMER).."

Quite frankly, I just don't give a damn about it.

"P.S. for all: ... I've poured out my 'opinion' .. "

#5 substantiated. (Thanks for that
:))

Visu said...

And, Oh by the way, All hail. :)

Bhargavi said...

@visu

"I would rather trust a woman's instinct than a man's reason." :)
-Stanley Baldwin

# Women don't talk at your back about men's problem... we only talk about the problem - MEN
# When it comes to sense of humor of women.. u laugh with them.. but for men.. u r often laughed at.
# DISCLAIMER 2
'Not all women, Not all men and not all time'
so u agree that it happens?! good! :)
# 'Coz, their opinions are almost biased and crap most of time'
MALE CHAUVINISM. Most men say that women are foolish.. nope! just that you men don't want women to take decisions.. u prefer them as 'slaves'
# 'Girls are bestowed with the power of Tears'
Dear friend, we women don't have water hose attached to our eyes.. unless someone is really hurt, they dont cry. So again u agree to my point..'But guyzzzz! They would casually talk with the gal as though nothing is wrong at all. Later, in her absence, would pass obscene comments and abuse her' :)
# 'one among the parent is a female'
Oh yeah! Totally agreed! But wait, if ur mom wishes that u marry a not-so-goodlooking gal(someone like Arukkaani, for instance :D) won't u argue with ur mom.. or would u go ahead n marry her to fulfil ur mother's wish? If u really feel that its bad, then u can try convincing them.. just that u don't want to.. and get away blaming ur parents for it! And one thing I find in men is that when a discussion about 'dowry' starts.. ella men-kum shrudhi konjham korayudhu.. :D
# 'And the very point of dressing 'Presentable' is to attract men'
Women always dress up well, though 'impressing men' is one of the reasons.. ;) A gal dresses up well even to meet her female friends. Thats our nature.. being presentable, neat, clean et al. '..As though you won't get distracted by gals in chudi... guys get distracted by the very presence of gals..' 'So be it.' We don't complain as long as we don't hear ur (obscene)comments.. :D
# Lipstick.. just to add up to a gal's beauty. Our lips.. Our lipstick.. Any problem u've got with it? Does it hurt u in any way?
# Men fall for beautiful gals. May be later on they start realising how beautiful she is with in.. ;) But it all starts with beauty!
# '..its applicable to girls too..'
'..is as small as an Iota..' :P
# 'If you can hit him and grab a snack, why not the bill.'
Hitting him n grabbing a snack?! OMG!! We don't do it... (I've seen guys doing it though.. their fights for food!) :D
'..why don't you ask atleast for a formality, why do you just grin and walk away.'
Its always gals paying on an outing with male friends.. so let him atleast take out his purse here.. as u would say.. hypocrisy man! :D

Visu said...

Haha, Just what was I expecting... Go ahead, Crib... Crib... Crib.. for all thou is an asset..

Everything's same except the arukani part, which ofcourse is a bit irrelevant.(Am i being polite here? Huh.).. Whatever you people say, Touche.
And oh, the lipstick part, YES! It does hurt my eyes. Jeez.

As was said before,
I. Just. Don't. Give. A. Damn.*


* If you are kinda serious, I was joking then. :P

Visu said...

And by the way, One Mr.stanley was talking about 'Kili Josiyam'.

Bhargavi said...

@visu
singam seththu ponaalum geththu pogadhu.. just got proved! :P

LOL!!!

Y do u get provoked?? DISCLAIMER 2 ;)
anyways i don wanna argue any more..

Visu said...

@Bhargavi

Well, I don't wanna argue either. As you said, am just expressing my opinion.(Or perhaps, fact ;)).. Basically, I wanna say that Nobody is perfect. So, 1+3=2+2=3+1.. :P

Provoked? Holy saint of samayapuram!

And also, I don't quite get that Lion Metaphor... ;)

@Srijesh

Dude? Calm down.

Bhargavi said...

@srijesh
r u in any way trying to provoke me? better luck next time.. :P

@Holy saint of samayapuram! lol!!
opinions differ..
PEACE!! :)

Visu said...

Alright, Om shanti Om. (Isn't that what they tell for peace? :P)

And that samayapuram funda was an inspiration from one of my fellow blogger. ;)

Bhargavi said...

@visu
suttutiya?! :P vaazhga..!

@srijz
i knew it! topics like these are sure to increase scraps in ur commu..
forum abt gals? oh yeah.. waiting for u to finish ur 'polambals' abt gals.. will then reply.. :D

btw not able to open orkut.. server problem :(

Visu said...

There is a thin film of gap between plagiarism and inspiration. Its the latter when you credit the source and its the former otherwise.

:D

Bhargavi said...

lol.. ok! :D
(philosophy amalgamated..)
an 'inspiration' from visu's blog :P

Fahad Y Mohammed said...

Well... I reckon somethings are best left untold... anyways good work... but koncham over bitta irukku... lolz.. just kidding.. I am pretty sure abt one thing... no guy or as a matter of fact no gentlemen(as you mentioned some) would ever accept this...let peace prevail... amen

Bhargavi said...

over bitta irukka? yeah i know..lol!!

ofcourse no one will accept.. freeya vittachu..

AMEN!

Unknown said...

well.. what shud i say... no way someone can convince u.. i wish u cud be a boy for a day like mudhalvan movie to understand all this :)